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Coming soon

The first posts are on their way.

I'm in the process of moving my blog posts over from my old provider, so they'll be live here soon. In the meantime, here are some of the topics you'll find, and you can subscribe on Substack to catch them first.

✍️ Upcoming topics, no fake dates, all on the way

Upcoming

Decoding your AMH and AFC without spiralling

What those two numbers actually mean, what they don't, and how to read your results without falling down a 2am Google hole.

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Surviving the two-week wait with your sanity intact

The TWW is its own special hell. The small, unglamorous things that genuinely helped me get through the longest fortnight there is.

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The questions worth asking your clinic

Walking into appointments knowing what to ask, so you leave with answers instead of a head full of new things to worry about.

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IVF on a budget: NHS vs private, honestly

What it really costs, where the NHS and private routes differ, and the things nobody warns you about before the bills land.

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The male side of IVF that nobody talks about

Partners are in this too. What it's like from the other side, written with mine, for anyone who feels sidelined by the process.

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Looking after your relationship through treatment

IVF puts pressure on even the strongest couples. How to stay on the same team when everything feels heavy and uncertain.

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